It’s funny how you spend so much time or little time at all to make a decision thinking it was the right one and it turns out not to be. How do you get out of it? How can you say no?
It may be a favour to someone. You keep on saying yes but the choice is there to say no. It doesn’t make you mean or a bad person you just being honest with yourself and putting yourself first for once. Majority of the time the person asking you can most probably do it themselves but they are just being lazy. As reliable as I know I an be you can be reliable for yourself. It’s a real step forward.
It may be an opportunity that you really thought you wanted. When you finally get there, it becomes clearer that it’s not the place you wanted to be at all. This isn’t for me and it’s fine to say that because there is clearly something else out there waiting for me. Eventually that will lead me to what I love. You may be doing a job for years but when you get a taster of something else, your perspective changes.
Change is a good thing, when it’s for the better. We shouldn’t have to force ourselves to do something we really don’t want to do.I get it can be difficult for some. They can’t just get up and change course, but if there is a slight possibly it shouldn’t be ignored.You never know when it will come around again.
When life gives you lemons make lemonade or send them back because you never ordered any.